Bones & Booth

I’ve been searching for something better than Bonnie & Clyde since they were a bit violent. A duo that has each other’s back no matter what they face. They care about one another deeply and share a world that no one else is a part of; genuine unconditional love so rare in the world we live in. I’ve always wanted to be someone’s Bonnie and have them be my Clyde but my search has been unsuccessful.

Lately I’ve been addicted to television series Bones (I rarely watch television unless it’s football season). I can identify with character Angela Montenegro; free spirit, creative and compassionate. I love all of the characters for the most part but Angela is closest to who I am. What I enjoy most about this show is the relationship shared by Bones and Booth. It was rough in the beginning but they truly compliment and balance each other. Their connection is amazing and it’s quite interesting to watch their interactions. I get that it’s only a television show but the entire show is fascinating and well written.Bones and Booth

Now instead of Bonnie searching for Clyde, I’m Bones (well sort of LoL) searching for Booth. Someone who is strong, intelligent, supportive, loyal and will accept me just as I am; I will reciprocate the same.

Most people often wish for a good man/woman but have difficulty creating a definition of what a good man/woman is; I can honestly say I am half way there thanks to Bones & Booth. Hey inspiration comes in many forms and sometimes you just have to go with it!

Here I go out into the world in search of my very own Booth!

Love, Peace & Blessings…

 

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Healing with Essential Oils

Sensual Mystiq Vibe

If you’ve ever doubted the power of Aromatherapy before, perhaps this will change your mind.

I was suffering from a toothache last week; Orajel, ibuprofen, ice pack, hot water bottle…nothing helped. Of course the pain began at about 12:00 AM so I could not hop over to my dentist’s office. The pain had me in tears and I could not think straight. I decided to take a look at my Aromatherapy and Herbal notes to see if there was anything I could do to relieve my pain. I came across a simple recipe: cloves, peppermint and lemon essential oils. I jumped up grounded some cloves (all out of clove essential oil) then added peppermint and lemon essential oils with a tablespoon of safflower oil. Applied this mixture to my gums and tooth and in five minutes…I finally had relief. The relief was so great that I was able to hold…

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Motivational Monday

change aheadI’ve heard too many people make this statement, “It’s better to stick with the devil you know…” I can’t stress enough how it pains me to hear or read this statement. What an awful admission of giving up, giving in, admitting defeat etc. When you stick with the devil you know, you have made a decision to give up on your happiness, your dreams and living a fulfilling life. Why would anyone make this choice willingly? People make this choice because they are either afraid of happiness because it will create change or feel that they do not deserve happiness.

The toughest challenge in life is to honestly “face” yourself. I was afraid of change but I finally became tired of the way things were and began to embrace change. Here is a better statement, “If you do what you’ve always done, you will get what you’ve always gotten.” Without change you will not grow; without growth you will never reach your full potential; if you never reach your full potential your life will have been in vain.

embrace changeToday I challenge you to look within, determine what will create bountiful happiness in your life and take small steps to achieve your happiness. YOU deserve to be happy, YOU deserve balance, YOU deserve to give and receive love, YOU deserve to be authentically who you are without fear of not being accepted and YOU deserve to leave your positive imprint in our world.

Once you believe happiness is possible, pay it forward and help motivate someone else; this will further increase your happiness. YOU can do this! If you get stuck along the way remember you are NEVER alone; reach out and the hand you NEED will help you continue your journey.

Wishing you great Love, Peace & Blessings…

 

Gray and Uninspired…

uninspiredI’m feeling gray…blah…uninspired…lethargic…bored…and probably anything else synonymous with the aforementioned words. I’ve been wishing for something “magical” to happen but I don’t have a clue as to what I want it to be. I want to experience life but don’t know where or how to begin. I want things to change but I don’t know specifically what I want to change.

Someone asked me “If you could do anything at all worry-free what would it be?” guess what, I searched for an answer and could not come up with anything. I know I want things to change but that is as far as my list goes. I want to meet new people, learn new things, have new experiences but I’m so lifeless and don’t have the energy to begin.

The great news…I am NOT depressed or anxious; I’m simply uninspired.How can I “fix” what I cannot identify? I’m looking all over for inspiration; looking for the light bulb to light up but nothing is happening…the “room” is still dim.

When I am creating my energy level is high but unfortunately I have a “regular job” which is unfulfilling and it seems to be “stealing” my energy. After years of giving so many so much of myself, perhaps I should have saved something for myself!

I can’t change the past but I can certainly change my present…Problem is there is not one thing I can follow consistently; it all becomes boring after a while.

Guess I’ll just keep digging…

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Some days…

Some days there’s no fun in being a square peg trying to fit in a round hole…

 

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Just in case you are not sure about what I mean…here is a reference from Wikipedia: 

square peg in a round hole is an idiomatic expression which describes the unusual individualist who could not fit into a niche of his or her society.

Still waiting for something magical to happen…two hours left for today and I am still hopeful. 🙂

Love, Peace & Blessings…

Off the Cuff with Syd 05/08/13

Syd’s top ten ways to satisfy your partner sexually, emotionally and intellectually.

#10 Read a f&*^ing book sometimes expand your mind. Intellectual stimulation is just as important as physical stimulation if not more; besides being dumb isn’t sexy.
#9 Don’t be selfish. You can’t satisfy anyone if you only think about yourself. Eventually you’ll end up having selfish sex with yourself. That sh&t can’t be fun.
#8 Don’t be an emotional pain in the ass. Some people are emotional, we understand shit happens. But all the time?! You can’t let your emotions run your life and maybe even ruin your relationship.
Happy Couple#7 Space…It ain’t just for moons and stars and astronauts. Everybody needs time for their self.
#6 Laughter and fun. This should be self-explanatory. If you can’t laugh and have fun with the one you’re with then DAMN!
#5 Know your partner. I mean some people are go hard freaks some are real conservative and some fall in the middle. If you don’t your partner how can you satisfy them?
#4 Don’t play it out. Believe it or not sex can get played out doing it every night sh^t start hurting you get skin burns. It can go from being fun to being a job. Sometimes less is more.
#3 This could be part of #4 Keep it interesting new and fresh. Try some new sh^t. Watch a movie get some toys, oils, dress up, roll play whatever. You gotta mix it up. It’s not about having the same meal every night. It’s about having the same meal prepared the same way every night that gets to you. You have to be open-minded and willing to try new things. Step out of your comfort zone. Hell you never know what may turn you on.
#2 Believe it or not sex isn’t everything. You can’t build a relationship solely on sex. It’s hard having good sex in a bad relationship. It’s even harder having sex with someone you hate. Working on your relationship outside the bedroom will help immensely in the bed room.
#1 Communication is key; not just talking but listening and understanding.  Without it you have no relationship at all.

You must be able to share your dreams opinions your fantasies and fetishes with each other without fear of judgment or prejudice. Being able to do so will allow y’all to grow not only sexually but emotionally.

Please share your thoughts and as always, Love, Peace & Blessings…