Author: SereneNSassySoul

Life, Love…

Today’s Spilled Thoughts are inspired by the Temptations’ song “Treat Her Like A Lady” check it out on Youtube. Looking out into the world it’s particularly disturbing to see the lack of respect women and men offer to one another. It’s evident in music, videos, movies etc. and it makes me wonder where did it all go wrong? “Life happens” is not an excuse to settle into relationships that don’t make you a better person. “Life happens” is not an excuse for treating people disrespectfully. “Life happens” is not an excuse to spread negative vibes or to allow yourself to stay in a depressed, low energy state. Life, Love are about… Respecting self and others Honoring self and others Communicating honestly, effectively, lovingly Never settling for less than your worth; never giving less than your best How do you live, love? Passionately Spiritually Soulfully Presently Faithfully Selflessly Fully Loyally Purposefully Gratefully Deeply Affectionately Detached (not to be confused with emotionless) you are whole with or with out your partner but your partner inspires you to be …

Return to the Wild

The moment it becomes clear the Mustang, rebellious spirit, infinite strength and independence has been quietly led all of this time. Led by fears, beliefs and expectations of others. The Mustang’s fire dimmed to almost nothing until now. Trapped in a cage she’s had the key to free herself from all along. The moment the Mustang wipes away cobwebs, giving thanks for clarity and strength gifted to her by the Universe… The moment the heaviness that was suffocating the Mustang has finally dissipated and she knows that she is finally and totally free… The moment the Mustang stands, legs stronger than ever; heart beating so strong she can here it reverberate throughout her entire being The moment the Mustang declares that no one will ever lead her again! The moment the Mustang reclaims herself completely! The moment the Mustang has longed for…to feel alive and purposeful This moment you are feeling proud and relieved for the Mustang, realizing…the Mustang is YOU! “I am truly, hopelessly addicted to feeling so deeply, words cannot describe…”  ~SereneNSassySoul © …

Fear Consumes Her…

Unable to acknowledge or admit, she suffers from fear deep within her spirit; it’s how she learned to managed her life thanks to early experiences Unintentionally she passes her fearfulness on to others and cannot accept when they reject her fear/step outside of her fear. Like so many other things this creates more fear within her. She judges harshly beginning with herself then trickling to others; perhaps unconsciously but does that excuse the pain she may cause for others? It’s frightening to be near people who don’t share her beliefs because they may go farther than she has allowed herself to go… Believing that allowing herself to be led will ease her pain or make life easier; as if she is not somehow held accountable for her life or lack thereof Closing her mind is “safer” than allowing it to flow openly with infinite possibilities… Keeping herself to only herself is “safer” than sharing herself because why risk being vulnerable and possibly being hurt again? Isn’t keeping yourself alone, hurtful?  Never taking risks, playing it …

The Light is Out…

It’s not dim, it’s out Flame is not dim or low it’s out Snuffed out, stomped out, drenched out… it’s out Filled with nothingness Lifeless, useless, Invisible, insignificant, irrelevant Indifferent, uninspired Numbness… Completely exhausted Alone, disconnected Aloof, disheartened Trapped, suffocating slowly Pain is gone; so is joy Nothing and no one matter Everything is gray; sometimes fuzzy Clarity, comfort elusive; non-existent Wariness… The Light is out…not dimmed…The Light is out! Consistently inconsistent; highs and lows; passionate then numb; up the down; in then out; clarity then confusion; peace then chaos; driven then stalled; fearless then fearful; excited then nonchalant; bright then dull; painless then full pain; emotional, emotionless; over It, in It; wanting more then not caring; full of life then exhausted; enjoying solitude, loneliness; fullof love then anger… ©SereneNSassySoul 2015

Her Sensual Mystiq

She was afraid of losing herself by letting go but decided she was worth the risk. ~SereneNSassySoul Her rhythm, her flow Her highs, her lows Her ins, her outs Her strength, her weakness Her body, her soul Her mind, her heart Her openness, her elusiveness Her silence, her words Her laughter, her tears Her chaos, her peace Her love, her disdain Her loyalty, her dismissiveness Her creativity, her logic Her Sensual (endowed with feelings), her Mystiq (who she is authentically) © 2015 SereneNSassySoul

Fortress Tumbles Down…

Today I pledge to release the fortress surrounding me because it has not done a great job keeping misery out but it has kept joy from entering and STAYING my life. Trust, Faith…in every message I’ve received during the past couple of weeks; one of the hardest things for me to do because of life experiences. Today I realized that those experiences are past and although I cannot change them, I can learn not to repeat them. Today I also released any blame previously placed upon those who have hurt me; I forgive them and wish them love and light; it’s time for me to move on once and for all. I’ve made many decisions based on how I felt and the emotions evoked within due to what I was experiencing. For example… I left a job where I had the freedom to work in a manner best for me. A job that supported my relocation because I needed peace in my life. A job I knew well but kept learning as I went along …

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She is Rising…

Dearest Beautiful Spirits, This post is dedicated to a special client whose personal progress and healing journey has been amazing to witness. She asked me to describe her beginning to her current state of transition and these are the words that came to mind. She wanted to share her experience so that anyone experiencing the same will know they are not alone. Love, Peace & Blessings, SereneNSassy Soul She IS Rising… She’s  felt swept up in  a never ending cycle of storms…hurricanes, tornadoes, even tsunami at time. Her waves flow high and low… Her depth immearsureable; no one has ever seen Her  beginning or end…not even Her She’s avoided releasing the storms within until now; She realizes now that She must be who She is authentically at all costs… Life is not worth living hiding “pieces” of Herself She’s dimmed Her light for far too long; wasting Her energy on so many, never saving much for Herself until now… She’s denied Her gifts because of what She’s been conditioned to believe by “the world”; they were dormant and …